I was with a boy who attended KEGS who was 16 and I was 14. Our relationship was very toxic and very controlling and badly impacted my mental health. When I eventually had the confidence to feel I could end things, the break up turned very nasty. We eventually blocked each other and moved on etc.
A few months later, I went on holiday with my friend and when I came back, my mum sat me down and told me the police had contacted her whilst I was away because he had been showing and sharing indecent images of me throughout KEGS sixth form. Another student had actually reported him and it had somehow got to the police which is how they informed my parents. I’m so glad that one student stood up for me who I still don’t know to this day. But it’s disgusting that he felt he could show around those images of me with no repercussion. I was absolutely distraught and humiliated to think people had seen me and my body which I hadn’t consented to.
It’s not okay to share indecent private images of someone and more people need to stand up against it.